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The Best!
Did
you ever wonder how people with medical problems
always tell you that their doctor is the best one
in the city (or the county or the state?) There
may be 100 doctors specializing in their area of
need. How could they have possibly found the best
one out of those 100?
The
answer is, of course, that they can’t. Patients
aren’t even qualified to make that kind of determination.
What is going on here psychologically is that people
who are nervous about their health take great comfort
in believing that they are in the best hands, medically
speaking. Look at the alternative, “My doctor is
a jerk and I don’t have any confidence in him.”
Not much satisfaction there!
One
great thing about doctors which, frankly, allows
us to have confidence in whichever of those 100
specialists we end up with is that doctors know
their fields of competence and don’t try to practice
outside those areas. Referring doctors know that
too, which is how that referral got made and why
the patient should have confidence in their new
doctor.
I
have a heart problem and my cardiologist recently
installed a pacemaker, a relatively simple procedure.
Had I required open heart surgery, I am positive
that he would have referred me to a cardiothoracic
surgeon to do this highly-involved procedure.
I
believe that people should go through a similar
process whenever they need professional help. Need
a doctor? Get a referral. Need a CPA? Get a referral?
Need a financial planner? Get a referral? Need a
lender? Call an 800 number.
Oops!
What’s wrong here? We had a sudden break in the
continuity here. The sad fact is that many people
seem to think that getting real estate financing
is so easy that they can, indeed, call an 800 number.
They think that they can get just as good a deal
as if they got a referral from a friend.
I
don’t believe that for a minute. I have dealt with
almost 3,500 consumers in my career, and most of
them are pretty smart. In most cases, however, because
of my involvement in the process, they end up doing
something different that what they thought they
were going to do before we met. Those changes resulted
in money saved.
I
also know that had they called an 800 number and
told some dweeb what they wanted, the dweeb would
have gotten them exactly what they asked for and
they would have missed the opportunity to save money.
Unlike
the doctor, the dweeb at the lender won’t say, “This
is just not something I’m familiar with. Let me
refer you to someone else more accomplished.” Never
happen! Their job is to do that the boss tells them
to do, and the boss tells them not to solve problems,
just to get you to send in the application.
The
genesis of this is that that type of borrower just
doesn’t believe that real estate finance is an area
where there is such a thing as an expert. They don’t
believe that someone else knows more about it than
they do. They don’t believe that they need help.
They hold those beliefs at their own peril.
The
fact is that real estate sales and real estate financing
are both areas where experts can and do regularly
help their clients make better choices and save
money. Unlike the doctors, however, many, many practitioners
in our field do not have enough expertise to be
able to help. Some only know how to answer the phone.
When
you are embarking on a real estate venture, you
want to deal with the best experts you can find,
and you can find them by get a referral!
Be
careful out there!
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